Updated: Mar 25, 2020
So some of you may know me from my #SurvivorStory … #50ShadesOfHell, well I wanted to follow up with an update. This January 2020 will be my 3 year anniversary of me being free of my abuser/ex husband & let me tell you … I feel amazing! The first year of me being home; getting my life back to normal, getting my child use to being around kids, having no car, working so many jobs to just get by, me rekindling relationships with my family & friends it was very hard, not going to lie ... But I kept believing in myself & told myself to never give up hope that there is light at the end of the tunnel. So now 2 & a half years deep into being FREE … WOW! I have learned so much about myself, what I want in my next relationship; not only for myself but for my child, reflecting on myself was key, going to therapy & talking to other people in/survivors of Domestic Violence (which encouraged me to start this Instagram pg) really helped with who I am today. It takes many people to come back to life with being in an abusive relationship; I am happy to say that it took me a short amount of time, & I have to thank my little one; who is my rock & watching my child grow really made me realize how much I have to fight for!