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That Night....(Sandra's Story)

Updated: Jul 1, 2019

On June 1, 2018 the Defendant adducted me from outside my home. Heavenly Father wanted me to witness with recollection how evil possessive an entity Dale can be. Fortunately, I am lucky enough to remember everything he did to me that night so I can tell the court now.

After he abducted me. I asked him where are you taking me? where are you going? He answered Don’t worry about it you’ll see! I was scared for my life so I grabbed and pulled the steering wheel hoping he would stop and let me out. He shoved me back to my seat with his hand on my chest he then got more upset because my phone was ringing screaming at me who the Fuck is calling you this late, I held my phone so he could see the caller Id it was my sister calling after witnessing,

as he wouldn’t let me out the car after getting upset because I wouldn’t let him sleep over telling him he wasn’t welcome in my house we are not together, He then accused me of sleeping with someone else calling me names. I told him I’m not talking to anyone else This isn’t about anyone else this is about you and what a sick lying disgusting bitch you are, I don’t want anyone else I just don’t want you I don’t want to be with you. He got angry & broke my clutch took my phone looking threw my social media, texts, messages, calls he then hovered over me as I had my right foot out the car he grabbed my thigh forcing my foot back in the car as he was over me shoved my neck down with his elbow on my neck .I was deeply afraid of what he would do next as he threw my phone out the window I wanted to get away from him. At the goodwill parking lot I got myself out the car & started walking home he then chased me down the street driving up the wrong side of rode he left the car parked in the middle of street chasing me running up behind me picking me up and trying to forced me back in to the car I slammed the door shot with my foot as he was trying to throw me back in the car he got angrier and slammed my body into the car opening the door throwing me back in , When I ran from him the second time, he hit me on the back of my head so hard that his watch cut into my skin. I was bleeding out of the left side of my head.

At some point, he took me home, but I do not remember how or when. My sister was at my house, she walked in on him undressing me to put me in the shower and clean me up. She asked him to leave but all he keep saying was how It was just a fight & everyone fights arguing with her saying no I’m not leaving I don’t have to leave. The cops showed up to my house because a witness called in that a man was picking up an unconscious girl from the middle of the street he then followed Dale back to my house, I am certain that if it wasn’t for the witness watching & following him I might not be alive right now. Officers spoke with my sister and I asked what happen between the Defendant and I as they spoke to him separately. The EMT’s showed up and said I needed medical attention I was scared to die in the ambulance so I asked if my sister could take me instead.

At the hospital, I was in bad shape and put in critical conditions. The doctors ran many tests including CT’s, X-ray’s .The doctors determined the impact of every punch he inflicted on me that night. When I was running way from the Defendant, as he hit me so hard that the watch he was wearing broke through my head causing hemorrhaging in 3 different parts of my brain. While one hemorrhage bled out, the other two bled into my brain giving me some memory lost and nerve damage. At this point, the doctors advised me and my sister that I was most likely going to need emergency brain surgery. This was scariest part. It was hard to comprehend that I was in ICU being watched over for possible emergency brain surgery, while the doctors were advising me that I may have to sign power of attorney over to my sister.

The abuse you inflicted on me also caused me to have a hematoma bruise on my brain broken blood vessels. Because of this damage you inflicted on me, I will have problems with my head for the rest of my life. I have been living with the threat of brain surgery since that night. I have to follow up with CT scans of my brain. Recently, I have been suffering debilitating migraines every single day. My doctors have determined, I have nerve damage & PTSD , I have to take depression medication. I am super sensitive to loud noises due to the head trauma I suffered at Dales hands. Currently, my new job requires me to work where there are loud noises and it is causing me to miss work completely. In the last month, I have been to the emergency room 2 times due to my migraines. I have experienced many sleepless nights due to these migraines. I wake up with a migraine almost every single day go to bed with a migraine. I have to take 4 different prescription’s because the head pain is unbearable it makes me nauseas & dizzy. The medication is not cheap and my insurance will only give me 9 pills a month to treat this unbearable pain. All I can do is just cry.

I can no longer participate in many things because of what the defendant did to me that night. I can no longer take my daughter swimming, my dogs running, I can’t do sit ups, I can’t jump, I can’t ride rollercoasters because the hematoma in my brain. I am in constant fear that what I do will cause more damage and I will end up with brain surgery. I use to be able to do many other things that I am unable to do. I'll never be able to do a head stand nor a tripod in yoga class. I will never be able to drive a stick shift because that section of my brain was deleted from my brain bleeding into itself. I can’t even wear headbands or wear my hair in a pony tail or up in a bun. I can’t no longer provide for my daughter like I once did.

I’ll never have peace of mind having to constantly look over my shoulder and scanning the rooms for him everywhere I go. I have constant anxiety and feeling paranoid by just hearing his name. I will always live with the fear that one day he will come back and finish me off & or hurt my daughter. I am a firm believer that one should be held responsible for ounces actions therefor I am pledging that the defendant get the maximum sentence and be held accountable for his actions. He has no remorse or empathy for what he did his been out and about like nothing happened at all he purposely ran into me walked right next to me like nothing happen staying around me for about 10 minutes like he didn’t almost kill me. Standing two feet directly behind me at gym sitting behind me while I worked out , having his cousin harrasimg me at work 12 hours after restarting order expired. Nonchalantly telling my friends I don’t know what she’s been telling you but that’s not what happen.

I’ll never have peace of mind having to constantly look over my shoulder and scanning the rooms for him everywhere I go. I have constant anxiety and feeling paranoid by just hearing his name. I will always live with the fear that one day he will come back and finish me off & or hurt my daughter. I am a firm believer that one should be held responsible for ounces actions therefor I am pledging that the defendant get the maximum sentence and be held accountable for his actions. He has no remorse or empathy for what he did his been out and about like nothing happened at all he purposely ran into me walked right next to me like nothing happen staying around me for about 10 minutes like he didn’t almost kill me. Standing two feet directly behind me at gym sitting behind me while I worked out , having his cousin harassing me at work 12 hours after restarting order expired. Nonchalantly telling my friends I don’t know what she’s been telling you but that’s not what happen.


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